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Nicola | Psychotherapy, EMDR & Schema Therapy
Psychotherapy Ashbourne
Individual & Couples Psychotherapist.
I'm Nicola, a relational psychotherapist supporting individuals and couples to heal from emotional overwhelm, relationship trauma, and low self-worth. I offer a grounded, compassionate space to explore and create lasting change.
You might feel emotionally overwhelmed, stuck in painful relationship patterns, or unsure how to move forward. Whether you're navigating a breakup, struggling in your relationship, or feeling consumed by self-doubt or anxiety, therapy can offer a calm, compassionate space to pause, reflect, and begin to rebuild.
I work with individuals and couples carrying the weight of past relational wounds, such as betrayal, emotional neglect, or the lingering feeling of never being quite “enough.” Some of my clients identify as emotionally sensitive and easily affected by others; others feel numb or disconnected from their emotions entirely. Many feel torn between the longing for deep connection and the fear of being hurt again.
I’m a relational psychotherapist specialising in complex trauma, especially the kind rooted in early relationships or long-term emotional overwhelm. I integrate Attachment-Focused EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and Schema Therapy / IFS (parts work) to help clients process emotional pain, shift unhelpful patterns, and reconnect with themselves and others in a meaningful way.
Sessions are available in person at my private practice in Cubley, Derbyshire, or online across the UK and Europe via Zoom. I’m conveniently located just 10 minutes from Uttoxeter and Ashbourne, and within 20 minutes of Stoke-on-Trent, Burton upon Trent, and Derby, just five minutes off the A50 Sudbury roundabout.
While my focus is on providing long-term therapy, I understand that some clients may prefer shorter-term support. I offer a limited number of short-term therapy blocks, depending on availability and your individual needs. Sessions are held weekly, as I’ve found consistency is key to creating meaningful and lasting change. Ad hoc sessions may occasionally be available, feel free to get in touch to ask about current openings.
I offer an inclusive, affirming space where you can be fully yourself. I welcome clients from all backgrounds and am a neurodivergent- and LGBTQ+ friendly therapist who values openness, honesty, and authenticity in the therapy relationship.
I’m a fully qualified, accredited registered member of the NCPS and a member of the BACP. I adhere to both organisations’ ethical codes, and maintaining professional integrity and confidentiality is at the heart of my work.
Alongside my own practice, I’m the founder and clinical director of a practice where I also lead a small team of associate therapists and final-year student practitioners. This allows us to offer more availability and accessible low-cost therapy options, while staying true to our core values of compassion, integrity, and personalised care.
If you would like to know more or book an appointment, please send me a message via the send a message - button.
Online therapy
Online via ZoomQualifications and registrations
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Advanced Patterns in Psychotherapy Level 7 PG Dip
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Advanced Diploma in Relationship Psychotherapy Level 7 PG Dip
- Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy Externship (EFT)
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Integrative Counselling Level 5
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Drugs and Alcohol Counselling Level 5
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Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapy
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Young person and adolescent counselling Level 5
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Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR)
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Coaching (Business & Life Coach)
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Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)
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Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT)/Rational Emotive Behavioural Therapy (REBT) Diploma
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Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Behavioural Therapy
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Level 3 Counselling Skills
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Reiki Level 1&2 Therapist
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Clinical Practitioner Neuro Linguistic Programming
- Schema Therapy
Continued Professional Development:
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Healing in Couples Therapy: New Strategies to Rebuild Trust, Overcome Trauma & Save Relationships
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Advanced course in trauma treatment
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Attachment-focused EMDR therapy - Laurel Parnel Master Class
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Rupture and repair in relationships
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Somatic therapy - Peter Levine's Trauma Master Class
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Healing Trauma with Janina Fisher: Essential Strategies for Shame, Self-Loathing & Working with the Body
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Internal family systems
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The Treating Trauma Master Series
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The Neurobiology of Trauma
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Working With Core Beliefs of 'Never Good Enough'
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How to Work with the Patterns That Sustain Depression
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Unleash your EMDR Part 1 - Working with attachment - Mark Brayne
- Schema therapy for eating disorders
Registrations
- BACP - The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy
- NCPS - the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society
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Therapies offered
- ✓ Emotionally focussed therapy
- ✓ Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
- ✓ Online counselling
- ✓ Relationship Counselling
Areas of counselling I can help with
- ✓ Abuse
- ✓ Anger management
- ✓ Anxiety
- ✓ Attachment disorder
- ✓ Being a perfectionist
- ✓ Being assertive
- ✓ Bereavement, grief, loss
- ✓ Bullying
- ✓ Burnout
- ✓ Communication
- ✓ Self confidence
- ✓ Depression
- ✓ Family problems
- ✓ Fear
- ✓ Feeling lonely
- ✓ Feeling sad
- ✓ Infertility
- ✓ Insecurity
- ✓ Jealousy
- ✓ LGBT-issues
- ✓ Living with cancer
- ✓ Low self esteem
- ✓ Miscarriage
- ✓ Obsessive compulsive disorder
- ✓ Panic attack
- ✓ Panic disorder
- ✓ Performance anxiety
- ✓ Postnatal depression
- ✓ Redundancy
- ✓ Relationship issues
- ✓ Retirement
- ✓ Self-harm
- ✓ Setting boundaries
- ✓ Stress
- ✓ Trauma
- ✓ Workplace stress
- ✓ Worrying too much
Fees
Working With Nicola
Monday 9.30 - 5.30 Individuals & Couples
Tuesday 9.30 - 5.30 Individuals & Couples
Friday 9.30 - 5.30 Individuals & Couples
Working with our team of associates
Monday through to Sunday 9.00am - 10.00pm Individuals & Couples
Fees working with Nicola
Individual Therapy - £ 90 per 50-minute session
Couples Counselling - £100 per 50-minute session
Fees working with associates & students
Individuals - £35 - £85 per 50-minute session
Couples Counselling - £75 -£85 per 50-minute session
Availability (Opening hours)
| Monday | 9.30 - 5.30 |
| Tuesday | 9.30 - 5.30 |
| Wednesday | - |
| Thursday | - |
| Friday | 9.30 - 5.30 |
| Saturday | - |
| Sunday | - |
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