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Maaike | Counsellor/ Trauma Therapist/ Supervisor/ Trainer/ Clinical Lead
Counselling Rochford - Southend-on-Sea
I am an experienced Integrative Psychotherapist specialised in trauma therapy with 19 years'+ experience.
I work with people affected by trauma, PTSD and complex PTSD. Trauma can look like physical, emotional or sexual abuse, traffic accidents, medical diagnosis, bullying, war, natural disasters, and so on. I am senior accredited with the BACP, SNCPS and accredited with EMDR UK. My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and grounded in evidence-based practice.
If you are struggling with flashbacks, nightmares, dissociation, avoidance, a dysregulated nervous system, or impact on the body, let me know. There are often many different things we can do.
I have worked for a host of organisations, including Victim Support, General Counselling Departments, Rape Crisis, a Hospice, counselling colleges and the Children's Society. I work for the Children's Society as a Clinical Lead. Contact me for a brief free consultation.
How I Work
In the first session we will talk through how you are doing and what you need. We will work together to figure out a way forward. I draw from a range of therapeutic models to tailor our work to your individual needs, including:
* Humanistic Therapy – offering empathy, respect and a non-judgemental space.
* EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) – a well-established method for processing traumatic memories.
* Sensorimotor Psychotherapy (Level 1) – working with the body to address the somatic imprints of trauma.
* Internal Family Systems (IFS Level 1 and 2) – gently helping parts of you that may be carrying pain, fear, or shame.
Together, we’ll find the pace and approach that feels right for you. Whether you are newly seeking help or have had therapy before, our work will focus on helping you feel safe, heard, and empowered to heal.
Other stressors than trauma
In addition to trauma-focused therapy, I also work with a wide range of related and co-occurring issues that may be affecting your well-being. These include challenges around self-esteem, identity, loss and grief, depression, anxiety, existential struggles and relationship difficulties. Our work can help you untangle these layers in a safe and supportive way.
We also support professionals:
We also deliver a range of counselling training and supervision for trainee counsellors, as well as to experienced qualified counsellors, psychotherapists and other mental health professionals.
Foundation Diploma - Therapeutic Safety in Trauma (NCPS Quality Checked)
We regularly run a NCPS Quality Checked Foundation Diploma - Therapeutic Safety in Trauma. This 10 day training takes place on one day a month and runs again fully online per Sunday 6th September 2026.
Next Steps
If you're ready to begin or would like to find out more, I welcome you to reach out. This is an opportunity for us to talk about your needs, ask any questions you may have, and see whether we feel like a good fit to work together. You don’t have to face this alone – healing is possible, and I’m here to support you every step of the way.
Online therapy
Telephone and online counselling will be structured in a similar way to face-to-face sessions: We will book a particular date and time, at which the sessions will take place. Online counselling can take place through Zoom. At the beginning of the first session we will take a little time to ensure all technology works well, after which the session can take place.
If you would like to access telephone or online counselling or therapy, it may be helpful to think about what might be a private space for you to be in, when accessing these sessions. If you have any questions as to how this works, or if you would like to start this up, please don't hesitate to contact me!
Qualifications and registrations
- 2025 - Internal Family Systems - Level 2
- 2024 - Internal Family Systems - Level 1
- 2022 - 2023 - Level 1 Sensorimotor Psychotherapy
- 2022 - EMDR - Level 1, 2 and 3
- 2021 - Post-Graduate Certificate Clinical Supervision, with honors
- 2021 - Diploma Gambling Counselling, with distinction
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2021 - Addiction Counselling - QLS Level 3
- 2020 - Qualified Cyber Therapy - Children, Young People and Adults
- 2019 - Advanced Diploma Psychotherapy, distinction
- 2018 - Certificate Counselling Supervision
- 2018 - Practitioners Diploma Cognitive Behavioural Therapy
- 2017 - Diploma Therapeutic Counselling
- 2009 - BSc (Hons) Social Work, Considered the Dutch Equivalent of BSc Degree Counselling
- 2006 - BSc Degree in Teaching Primary Education
Registrations
- BACP - The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy
- NCPS - the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society
- EMDR Europe
I offer therapy in
Specialisations
- 1. Trauma, PTSD and CPTSD
- 2. Sexual abuse
- 3. Domestic abuse
- 4. Grief and loss
- 5. Depression
- 6. Anxiety
- 7. Identity issues
- 8. Existential questions
- 9. Spirituality
Specialisations and Expertises
I specialize in working with any form of trauma, including domestic abuse, sexual abuse (including CSA/ CSE), car accidents, traumatic bereavements, sudden illness, trafficking and torture. I am fully qualified in EMDR. EMDR is a way of processing trauma, phobias, depression, anxiety, pain, etc. which allows the 'whole brain' to be online (rather than off-line). We can always talk through what this looks like for you. I am also trained in the Rewind-Technique by the Human Givens College. The Rewind-Technique is a gentle trauma-technique which allows you to process the traumatic memory whilst feeling safe and present.
I have also been trained in Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioural Therapy by the Anna Freud Centre in London, which is a gentle way to increase a sense of safety, working to manage your post-trauma symptoms such as re-living, avoidance, hyper-arousal and negative views of yourself or the world. We can look at processing some of the feelings or traumatic experiences as well. Some people find that very helpful, for others it may not be necessary. The sessions will always be tailored to your wants and needs.
Sensorimotor Psychotherapy works by using the body to increase safety when you have experienced trauma. We also work with the body to process that trauma, if you ever feel that that would be helpful for you.
Internal Family Systems (IFS) recognises that we have different parts to who we are. Parts of us may protect us, other parts may hold pain, shame or trauma. We can reconnect to these parts, build relationships and create more internal harmony.
Aside from specializing in trauma, I also specialize in working with bereavement and loss. I worked for 4 years for a Hospice in Chelmsford, and have provided bereavement counselling through the years in both the Netherlands and the United Kingdom. A loss may include a loss of a job, marriage, contact with family, house or a pet.
Most common issues I support people with:
1. Trauma in all its forms
2. Bereavement and loss
3. Anxiety
4. Depression
5. Identity and self-esteem
Therapies offered
- ✓ Cognitive behavioural therapy
- ✓ Counselling
- ✓ EMDR Therapy
- ✓ Humanistic therapies
- ✓ Integrative Counselling
- ✓ Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
- ✓ Online counselling
- ✓ Person-centred therapy
- ✓ Psychotherapy
- ✓ REWIND Technique
- ✓ Teenage counselling
- ✓ Telephone counselling
Areas of counselling I can help with
- ✓ Abortion
- ✓ Abuse
- ✓ Anger management
- ✓ Anxiety
- ✓ Being a perfectionist
- ✓ Being assertive
- ✓ Bereavement, grief, loss
- ✓ Bullying
- ✓ Burnout
- ✓ Childhood emotional neglect (CEN)
- ✓ Communication
- ✓ Self confidence
- ✓ Depression
- ✓ Family problems
- ✓ Fear
- ✓ Feeling lonely
- ✓ Feeling sad
- ✓ Hyperventilation
- ✓ Insecurity
- ✓ Jealousy
- ✓ Low self esteem
- ✓ Obsessive compulsive disorder
- ✓ Panic attack
- ✓ Performance anxiety
- ✓ Phobia
- ✓ Post-traumatic stress disorder
- ✓ Postnatal depression
- ✓ Redundancy
- ✓ Relationship issues
- ✓ Retirement
- ✓ Self-harm
- ✓ Setting boundaries
- ✓ Sleep problems
- ✓ Social phobia
- ✓ Stress
- ✓ Trauma
- ✓ Workplace stress
- ✓ Worrying too much
Registered with
Fees
One-to-one counselling and trauma therapy:
£95 for EMDR 75-minute processing sessions
Clinical Supervision:
Availability (Opening hours)
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| Wednesday | 01:30pm - 5pm |
| Thursday | 08:30am - 5pm |
| Friday | 08:30am - 5pm |
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