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Lena | Psychosexual Therapist
Introduction
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Are you and your partner feeling disconnected? Struggling with intimacy, trust, or communication?
Perhaps you're facing infidelity, considering separation, or simply feel like you've lost the spark that brought you together. You don't have to figure this out alone.
I'm a specialist psychosexual therapist with over 30 years' experience, trained at the internationally renowned Tavistock Relationships. I work online with individuals and couples, helping you navigate some of the most personal and sensitive challenges in life.
I specialise in psychosexual therapy, including intimacy difficulties, desire differences, and sexual dysfunction. I also offer expert support for those affected by childhood abuse, domestic abuse, sexual violence, and trauma. I have specialist experience with neurodivergence, including Autism and ADHD, and how these affect relationships.
I work with all kinds of relationship configurations: whether it's traditional monogamy, polyamory, or open partnerships.
I tailor my approach to you, there's no one-size-fits-all in therapy. I draw on psychodynamic, attachment-based, and trauma-focused methods, alongside EMDR and NLP, depending on what you need. Sessions are warm, honest, and practical — you'll leave with real understanding, not just theory.
I know reaching out takes courage, especially when the issues feel deeply personal. I create a space where you can be completely honest about your relationship, your desires, your fears, without judgement. Just come as you are, and we'll work it out together.
All sessions are online via Zoom, Google Meet, WhatsApp, FaceTime, or phone, flexible therapy that fits around your life, wherever you are in the world. Reduced fees are available, just ask.
Online therapy
I work solely online, offering flexible sessions that fit around your life, wherever you are in the world.
Online therapy means you can access specialist support from the comfort and privacy of your own home, without the need to travel.
I use Zoom, Google Meet, WhatsApp, FaceTime, and phone. All you need is a stable internet connection and a private space where you won't be interrupted.
Online sessions are just as effective as in-person therapy, and many clients find they feel more at ease opening up from their own environment, particularly when discussing sensitive or intimate issues.
Qualifications and registrations
MSc in Psychosexual Psychotherapy from the Tavistock RelationshipsP.G. Dip in Couples and Individual Counselling & Psychotherapy
H.E. Dip in Psychology
Diploma Clinical and Pastoral Counselling
Diploma Life Coaching
Master Practitioner of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic-Programming)
PG Cert. in Autism
Registrations
- BACP - The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy
- COSRT - College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists
- EMDR (UK and Ireland) - the EMDR Association of the UK and Ireland
I offer therapy in
Specialisations
- 1. Couples therapy
- 2. Infidelity
- 3. Divorce and separation
- 4. Premarital counselling
- 5. Sex therapy
- 6. Intimacy issues
- 7. EMDR
- 8. Sexual dysfunction
- 9. Neurodivergence and ADHD
- 10. Trauma and abuse
Specialisations and Expertises
I specialise in helping individuals and couples navigate a wide range of personal and relational challenges.
My core focus includes: couples therapy for communication breakdown, conflict, and disconnection; support through infidelity, separation, and divorce; psychosexual therapy for desire differences, performance anxiety, sexual dysfunction, and intimacy barriers; helping clients heal from childhood abuse, domestic abuse, sexual violence, and trauma (including PTSD); and understanding how neurodivergence, including Autism and ADHD, impacts relationships and intimacy.
I tailor my approach using psychodynamic, attachment-based, and trauma-focused methods, alongside EMDR and NLP. Sessions typically range from 6 to 20 depending on the complexity of the issues, though some clients find benefit in just a few sessions while others prefer longer-term support.
There is no fixed commitment, we work at your pace.
Therapies offered
Areas of counselling I can help with
Fees
Online Individual counselling £108 incl. 20% VAT for 50 minutes
Online Couples counselling £132 incl. 20% VAT for 50 minutes
Free 15-minute introductory call
I accept payment by bank transfer, card, or direct debit. Reduced fees are available, just ask.
I can also provide invoices suitable for insurance reimbursement.
Availability (Opening hours)
| Monday | 9am 8pm |
| Tuesday | 9am 8pm |
| Wednesday | 9am 8pm |
| Thursday | 9am 8pm |
| Friday | 9am 6pm |
| Saturday | - |
| Sunday | - |
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