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Kate | Counsellor and Psychotherapist
Counselling Cranleigh
**Update 15 June**Current availability: -
Online / Telephone - Wednesday 2pm, Thursday 11am or Thursday 2pm.
In-person - Wednesday 2pm.
Please contact me if a weekly time works for you.
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What a minefield finding the right therapist can be. We all have our profile and it really does come down to following your gut about who speaks to you. From my side, I want to make this as easy as possible, which is why I include my current availability so you know from the outset whether I can accommodate you.
Whether you are here because something feels off, because a relationship is struggling, or because you are tired of the same patterns showing up however hard you try to change them, you are in the right place.
Why You Might Be Here
You may find yourself here because of relationship difficulties, bereavement / loss, increased use of alcohol or food, or a general feeling of being unable to get on top of life. You may have feelings of loneliness, grief, anxiety, anger, confusion, resentment or emptiness. It could be you are noticing the impact of earlier life experiences such as neglect, shame, a feeling of not being good enough or fears of rejection or abandonment which mean you are self-protecting. All impact how you are living today.
Reaching out raises the question of ‘are you here because you want things to stay the same, or are you ready for change?’
Therapy offers you the opportunity to understand your patterns and begin to take different action. When you feel more connected, both within yourself and with others, you will embrace a way of life that fees right for you.
About Me
I am a BACP Accredited counsellor and psychotherapist with over 10,000 hours of clinical experience in private practice since 2014.
Being a relational therapist means I do not hide behind a desk or a professional persona. I believe it is the relationship we create together that heals. I meet you as a real person and stay alongside you for as long as you need, at a pace that feels manageable to you.
HOW do we do therapy? With Honesty, Openness and Willingness. No artificial intelligence involved. Just human to human, heart to heart connection.
You are the expert on you. My role is to anchor alongside you as we make sense of what is happening and begin to look at what you want to do differently.
Online therapy
Online and Telephone Sessions
I work fully online and by telephone, which means wherever you are in the UK, we can work together. I work from a dedicated, peaceful space in my home near Cranleigh in Surrey.
I primarily use Zoom and Signal, both of which offer a high level of privacy and reliability. I am also happy to work on WhatsApp, Microsoft Teams, Google Meet or Doxy, whichever feels most comfortable.
For couple and two sessions, video is required. Telephone works well for individuals but not for couple work, where being able to see one another matters.
Qualifications and registrations
BACP Accredited Counsellor and Psychotherapist (2017), member number 093164
BA (Hons) Counselling, University of Greenwich (2015)
FdSc Integrative Counselling, University of Greenwich (2014)
Relationship and Couples Specialist Training
• Advanced Certificate in Relationship Therapy, COSRT (2020)
• The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy, The Couples Institute under Dr Ellyn Bader (2022)
• Relational Life Therapy, Level 1 (2025)
Previous Voluntary Experience
• Volunteer counsellor at Sam Beare Hospice, working with bereaved carers and families
• Voluntary work at RASASC, supporting survivors of sexual trauma
Online Courses
How to Work Safely and Ethically with Online Clients
Moving Your Practice Online (Online Therapy Institute)How to do Counselling Online: A Coronavirus Primer (Open University and BACP course)
Plus much more as I do Additional Training and Workshops on a monthly basis to keep my knowledge current.
Registrations
I offer therapy in
Specialisations
- 1. relationship issues
- 2. bereavement, grief, loss
- 3. mother / father wounding
- 4. attachment issues
- 5. childhood trauma
- 6. low self-confidence
- 7. relational trauma
- 8. unpleasant feelings
- 9. alcohol dependency
- 10. setting boundaries
Specialisations and Expertises
My specialisms are relationship, loss / bereavement, childhood issues, adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) and alcohol dependency issues.Most common issues I support people with:
Relationships
The most important relationship you have is the one with yourself. Everything else flows from there. Whether you are struggling in an intimate relationship, with family, friendships or at work, relational therapy helps you understand your inner world and the story you have been telling yourself about who you are and what you deserve. The ripple effect is real; when you feel more settled within yourself, you have more genuine choice in how you relate to others.
Loss and Bereavement
We attach to people, ideas and ways of life and when those attachments are lost or threatened, we grieve. Understanding the loss cycle gives you a tool to work through difficult feelings with self-compassion and patience. Grief work moves you from feeling stuck, done to or in despair, to a place where you have a voice and choice again.
Alcohol and Food
Both can be used as survival strategies to help you cope with what is going on inside. If your relationship with alcohol or food has become problematic, we look at what is underneath, without shame or blame, and begin to find alternative ways to support yourself. The fact that these strategies have worked for you is worth acknowledging. They kept you going. Now we look at what might work better.
Low Self-Worth
Experiencing low self-esteem, low confidence or a persistent sense of not being enough often traces back to an old story given to you by others, or limiting beliefs you have carried for so long they feel like fact. They are not. We are all born as our wonderful selves and therapy is about finding your way back to that person, before all the adaptations happened.
Anxiety
Anxiety tends to mean living in the next moment rather than the present one. Thoughts go round and round. The world can feel unsafe. The aim of therapy is to help you come off survival mode and begin to embrace life as it is today, accepting that thoughts and feelings are momentary and do not have to last a lifetime.
I also counsel other symptoms of how you may have learnt to be in the world, i.e. not feeling enough, feeling sad or lonely, abuse, attachment issues, perfectionism, trauma, feeling dissatisfied, estrangement, etc.
Therapies offered
- ✓ Attachment-based therapy
- ✓ Career counselling
- ✓ Counselling
- ✓ Couples counselling
- ✓ Integrative Counselling
- ✓ Online counselling
- ✓ Psychodynamic therapy
- ✓ Psychotherapy
- ✓ Relationship Counselling
- ✓ Skype counselling
- ✓ Telephone counselling
- ✓ Transactional Analysis
- ✓ Trauma therapy
- ✓ Walk and Talk therapy
- ✓ Zoom counselling
Areas of counselling I can help with
- ✓ Abuse
- ✓ Addiction
- ✓ Anger management
- ✓ Anxiety
- ✓ Attachment disorder
- ✓ Being a perfectionist
- ✓ Being assertive
- ✓ Bereavement, grief, loss
- ✓ Binge-eating disorder
- ✓ Burnout
- ✓ Childhood emotional neglect (CEN)
- ✓ Codependency
- ✓ Communication
- ✓ Self confidence
- ✓ Covid-19 Anxiety
- ✓ Eating problems
- ✓ Family problems
- ✓ Fear
- ✓ Feeling lonely
- ✓ Feeling sad
- ✓ Insecurity
- ✓ Jealousy
- ✓ Low self esteem
- ✓ Performance anxiety
- ✓ Redundancy
- ✓ Relationship issues
- ✓ Retirement
- ✓ Self-harm
- ✓ Setting boundaries
- ✓ Stress
- ✓ Trauma
- ✓ Workplace stress
- ✓ Worrying too much
Registered with
Fees
Choosing a therapist is a personal decision and it matters to me that you feel I am the right person for you. That is why I offer the first session complimentary for individuals and at a reduced rate for couples.
• Initial session (individuals): complimentary
• Initial session (couples and twos): £50, which includes pre-assessment work
• Weekly individual sessions: £65 for 60 minutes
• Weekly couple and two sessions: £85 for 60 minutes
• Counselling students: £50 for 60 minutes
• Reduced daytime rates available on request
I am a recognised therapist for Bupa, Aviva, AXA, WPA and Vitality Health.
If you are insured with any of these, please contact them directly for approval before getting in touch.
Availability (Opening hours)
| Monday | 8am - 4.30pm |
| Tuesday | 8am - 4.30pm |
| Wednesday | 8am - 4.30pm |
| Thursday | 8am - 4.30pm |
| Friday | Closed |
| Saturday | Closed |
| Sunday | Closed |
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