I feel regularly insecure
I feel regularly insecure
- Insecure about if I am good enough....
- Insecure about if I do my work good enough
- Insecure about if I am nice enough, if my boyfriend will not leave me.
I have this already since I was young. I was good at athletics. When I won the second prize, then I thought I was not good enough. And when I won the first prize, I pretended like it was nothing and could not be proud of it.
I would like to feel more confident.
Dear Anonymous,
I recognize what you write. I also ask myself these questions often. Whether I am nice enough and whether I am good enough at work. Fortunately I am less insecure about my relationship. It is not nice to feel insecure. I think it prevents me from undertaking things. And then the insecurity even increases. I am breaking through that circle a little bit, since I know how it works.
I wish you good luck with those feelings and the difficult questions.
Anonymous, your are not doing yourself any justice, that's a pity!
You focus completely on the negative and make the positive you make very small. I'd like to invite you to do the opposite. Write down where you succeeded, where you feel good about what you did. The negative things you already know about yourself, so you ignore those... Good luck!
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